Podcast: Coaching – It’s Not About Me with Dr. Jessica Wise and Sonja Pullen

août 29, 2026

This episode brings Dr. Jessica Wise and Sonja Pullen of the Instructional Coaching Group into conversation with co-host Collette Sylvestre and Dr. Rick Gilson about what actually happens when we sit down with another educator. Dr. Wise has presented several times in person and on-line in Alberta in her work with the Instructional Coaching Group and is Co-Host with Jim Knight on their Podcast (linked below).  Sonja Pullen is now Canada’s first point of contact with the Instructional Coaching Group and has been working with educators in this capacity around the world.

Sonja described the pressure she felt early in her coaching career to be a fountain of knowledge, to fill every silence with something that sounded smart — and what shifted when she realized the work was never about her at all. Jessica took us to the moment when she watched a video of herself coaching and heard how much of the noise in the room was her own. That led us into video as a tool for seeing the current reality of a classroom rather than someone else’s account of it, into the resistance teachers reasonably feel toward being recorded and how choice softens that resistance, and into listening as something that involves ears, mind, and heart. Jessica’s answer to why any of us keep learning closes the episode well: we aren’t teaching the children we taught fifteen years ago, so we keep learning for the students we serve. Jessica, Sonja, and Collette share a wealth of resources and books to help us as instructional coaches.  If you are not officially a coach, just as the first person you lead is yourself, the first person you coach is yourself, there is something here for everyone who wants to be better in all their interactions and in their support of others in the classroom and out. Thanks for listening.

Professional reading

Coaching A to Z, Haesun Moon
You’re Not Listening, Kate Murphy
Evaluating Instructional Coaching, Jim Knight and colleagues at the Instructional Coaching Group
The Definitive Guide to Instructional Coaching, Jim Knight
Better Conversations, Jim Knight
The Coaching Habit, Michael Bungay Stanier
Limitless, Jim Kwik
Mastery Teaching: Increasing Instructional Effectiveness in Elementary, Secondary Schools, Colleges and Universities, Madeline Hunter
North of Nowhere: Song of a Truth and Reconciliation Commissioner, Marie Wilson
Beyond Monet: The Artful Science of Instructional Integration, Barrie Bennett and Carol Rolheiser
Michael Bungay Stanier’s newsletter — the “Choosing to Suck” issue
Coaching Conversations with Jim Knight (podcast)

Personal reading and other mentions

Lessons in Chemistry, Bonnie Garmus
One Hundred Years of Solitude, Gabriel García Márquez
A Cut Above (television series)
“Fix You,” Coldplay
James Ryan’s five essential questions

Instructional Coaching Group Website – Dr. Jim Knight and team